It’s time to jump away from the everyday small talk and discover what really makes your partner a tick. What are their values? What motivates them? What are their aspirations for the future?
If you really what to connect with these deep questions, we suggest picking a good moment when the phone is away and you can both fully engage with some meaningful conversations.
Brilliant, are you ready for this? Let’s take a good look though….
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Deep questions to ask your partner:
1: Are you in a good place in your life right now?
2: Why did your last relationship end?
3: In your eyes, how would you define cheating?
4: Who do you care the most about right now and why?
5: What were your first thoughts when we met?
6: What is more important to you financial independence or emotional stability?
7: What things are most important in our relationship?
8: Do you believe in god?
9: Do you have any life changing events?
10: Name your favorite historical figure?
11: What kinds of people do you navigate towards?
12: Do you stay in touch with any of your school friends?
13: What is your longest relationship?
14: Do you belive in finding your soulmate?
15: Are you prepared to give up certain things in your current life to start a new life together?
16: Can you imagine us still together in 5 years time?
17: Do you believe in fate?
18: Have you ever embraced other ways of living or cultures?
19: If you could relive a moment in life what would it be and why?
20: Have you ever suffered from an addiction?
21: What are your 5 best and worst character traits?
22: Do you believe in love?
23: Are you prepared to work through the hard time during our LDR?
24: Can you see us together in 5 years time?
25: What is your earliest memory?
26: Did you grow up in a loving family?
27: Are you good at compromising?
28: What do you value most about our relationship?
29: What story do you enjoy telling the most?
30: What scares you the most about the future?
31: Describe your perfect life, the way you would live in your dreams?
32: Is there a mantra you live by?
33: Do you think the past will affect our future?
34: What do you value the most about a partner?
35: Is there anything about you that will never change?
36: How do you find escapism?
37: How do you react around violence?
38: Who is your role model?
39: How compatible do you think we are?
40: Do you think about becoming a parent one day?
41: What do you live for, tell me your passions?
42: Are there any mentors that have help shaped you as a person?
43: Have you been in love before?
44: Would you describe yourself as a introvert or an extrovert?
45: Are you good at keeping secrets?
Serious questions to ask your boyfriend / girlfriend
46: Have you ever burned bridges with friends or family?
47: Can you remember your favorite birthday?
48: Rich and single or broke and in love?
49: What one thing have you always wanted to ask me?
50: If you found $1000 dollars what would you do?
51: Do you have any recurring dreams?
52: What personality traits do you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend?
53: Where would you travel if you won the lottery?
54: Did your parents teach you any valuable lessons?
55: Do you hold grudges easily?
56: If you were to judge a person, what are the three-points, you would judge them on?
57: Would you relocate to anew country for me?
58: Are there ways I can encourage and support you better?
59: What are you most grateful for?
60: Are there any big experiences that have shaped the person you are today?
61: What is your earliest childhood memory?
62: Name your top 5 movies?
63: Do you keep a journal?
64: Do you have any serious friendships with the opposite sex?
65: What makes you feel most accomplished in life?
66: How would you define success?
67: Are you still friends with any of your ex-girlfriends/boyfriends
68: Do you have any past regrets?
69: What qualities do you admire most about your parents?
70: Have you ever had your heart broken?
71: What are you views on social media?
72: What’s on your bucket list?
73: Have you ever cried tears of pure joy?
74: If your parents didn’t like me at first, what would you do?
75: How would you describe your relationship with money?
76: What’s your philosophy in life?
77: Do you believe in true love?
78: Is there a song that takes you back to a good time?
79: Do you believe in paranormal activity?
80: Name three things that make you happy?
81: What is your biggest fear in life?
82: If you could have one gift to give what would it be?
83: The saying grow old gracefully. Do you believe this is true?
84: What are you views on charity work?
85: Name 3 deal breaker in a relationship?
86: What is the biggest challenge in your life?
87: What question have you always wanted to ask me?
88: Is there such a thing as life after death? Your views?
89: Are ‘white lies’ a good thing?
90: What topics do you enjoy reading about?
91: If you could transform into any animal, which would you be?
92: Name your ideal career and why?
93: Health and fitness, what are your views?
94: Are you and adventurous person?
95: How do you think fame would change you?
96: Are you a spiritual person?
97: Which parent are you closest to and why?
97: Do you enjoy your alone time?
99: What are your views on starting a family one day?
100: Have you got an investment plan for the future?
101: What do you find attractive about me?